I would looooooove to see their adoption agency address this as well—I’m interesting in hearing what work they are doing as a private company to prevent adoptees from getting lost in the system such as this. But your story matters. While crying through the article of anger, sadness, and hope. I hope that Huxley get’s the help and love he needs. Myka Stauffer is the YouTube star from Dublin, Ohio, facing widespread criticism after she and her husband, James, decided to “rehome” their … Stauffer Says Huxley Is Living With a ‘New Mommy’ In a ‘Forever Home’ an update on our family …

The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child. As a Korean Adoptee myself I was enraged when I read about her and her husband.

Kids are not props. It used to be, Even on the lower end of Google Adsense’s. Thank you, Luana! You weren’t alone, and you never will be again. I wish someone had written my adoptive parents a letter like this. Thank you for speaking out for those who can’t or don’t have the platform! I was frustrated about how much they have shared about H in social media and he had no privacy at before he was sent with another family. Yes we adoptees stand together against the Stauffer family and what they’ve done! the adoption story (read: trauma) of a child too young to give consent is bad enough, re-abandoning him when things got hard for you is almost unspeakable, but collecting a profit at his expense is a whole new level of insidiousness. As a white mother whose child is a Korean adoptee (home just three months today), thank you for these words. What a waste. I’ve written much about our grief and trauma, and tried several times to write about this. I agree with alot of the things said however, constantly repeating “white lady” or “white lady tears”, may not be considered racist or offensive to most but it somewhat diminshes your message in the sense that your speech starts off powerful with a powerful message of hope but turns into you lashing out and name calling which kind of puts you on her level in the sense that your putting race into it…this situation in my opinion is not only heart breaking but its inconceivable because she used this child for profit and it seems like he was nothing more than an accessory to her to make her look better in the public eye…however, this situation is not at all more or less angering because of race…everyone needs to stop bringing up race…this is horrible because i child was disowned…it wouldnt be any less horrible if the mother was chinese and the baby black would it? – Nancy Verrier, The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child. Thank you for writing this and caring about his life and his personal narrative. YouTubers Myka and James Stauffer, in the glow of camera-friendly lighting, staring into the lens. For the life of me, I can’t decide which is worse.

I couldn’t. For the day he realizes his most personal trauma was not only promoted and publicized for the world to see, the people entrusted with his protection profited from that pain.

Can you imagine what Huxley’s birth parents could have done with $20,000-40,000? It was so triggering, it suffocated my voice. The only reason I was able to write about it is because I’ve felt it so acutely myself. We have to remind ourselves (and each other) that we are worthy and not disposable. Maybe this fact “went in one ear and out the other” like the warning from an expert about the severity of Huxley’s medical needs. The disclaimer at the bottom of each caption releasing you from liability for any damage incurred as a result of your content should be permanently tattooed on your forehead. You’re amazing. Hope you are managing okay in Korea. The Stauffers provided specific details about Huxley's behavior, according to the redacted report by Leonard. We may never know how much income you and your husband earned at the expense of Huxley’s privacy and dignity. How much money did you amass with the “fundraiser” to pay for Huxley’s adoption from China? It’s a neverending journey.

Adoption is trauma. 100% human trafficking, child exploitation, emotional and physical abuse. Absolutely! Wrong on every level. Me too, Aubrey. He’s our boy.” Behind that false promise, it was clear even then how you truly saw Huxley- as merchandise. I feel your passion and pain and what has happened angers me extremely. Myka and James Stauffer are YouTubers who have faced backlash after sharing a video in which they revealed they “rehomed” their four-year-old adopted son Huxley, who is autistic.

On the surface, the industries seem to have nothing in common. “Huxley wanted this decision 100%.” So you were either successful in gaslighting a four-year-old, non-verbal child OR you’re putting words in his mouth for your own gain. And they are only ours to tell, if and when we decide it feels right. But—in the wrong hands—they are two sides of the same exploitative coin.

What a waste. Narcissism is the most highly inherited personality disorder, with a heritability index of 0.64 to 0.71 . Can u find out where he is at. ... At the end of the day, this letter is not for you, Myka Stauffer. This letter is for Huxley (or whatever name he claims someday as his own). Myka Stauffer Deputies with the sheriff's department also investigated and interviewed the Stauffers on June 4, and performed welfare checks on their other four children. This letter is for Huxley (or whatever name he claims someday as his own). But all of sudden, they say it is for his privacy/dignity. At the end of the day, this letter is not for you, Myka Stauffer.

of both influencer marketing and adoption. This brought tears. YouTube mom Myka Stauffer cleared of abuse; adopted son safe with new family But questions remains about the influencer culture that allowed Myka and James Stauffer … People are investigating his whereabouts- I’ll try and keep this post updated. Thank you for sharing your story, I truly appreciate your perspective on the matter. But having been adopted from South Korea at the age of three months, I know that nothing you’ve earned from sharing your adoption journey will ever make up for the long-term damage to Huxley’s mental and physical well-being.

For the day he realizes his most personal trauma was not only promoted and publicized for the world to see, the people entrusted with his protection. I pray that little guy has truly found his family and he doesn’t have to go through anymore upheaval. What a great resource.

We hope we are making changes that will help impact your child’s future. We may never know how much income you and your husband earned at the expense of Huxley’s privacy and dignity. So I have one question for you now: was it worth it?

Thankyou Stephanie!! Praying for that sweet boy that his new life will be filled with love, acceptance, and joy. I can only imagine the confusion, heartbreak, and the multitude of other emotions he must feel without being able to fully comprehend and process them at five years old. If you truly wanted to help “orphans” from other countries, there were other ways of providing resources besides convincing yourself that you were entitled to parent someone else’s child. Myka Stauffer, 32, and her husband James posted a tearful video last Tuesday saying they've decided to 'rehome' their adopted 4-year-old son Huxley. I’m not much into cancel culture, but I sure hope that they never, ever go back to making videos, especially under the guise of being ‘family vloggers’. They don’t deserve to be parents. I could never understand why two people who used to tell me that they “picked me out” and wanted me so badly could toss me when things became tough. You are not disposable. After receiving his autism diagnosis, you said, “He’s our son and that’s that. Dear Myka (and obligatory Instagram husband James).

I could never say this how you did but I am so glad you wrote this and spoke up for Huxley, yourself, and others.

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